Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Friday was my last day of work before the beginning of my vacation time leading into my maternity leave. I've been slowly but surely checking things off my list, trying to get organized for baby but also trying to relax at the same time. It's hard with so much to do! I've been driving around town a lot, picking up this and that and I'm finding it pretty hilarious how people strike up conversations with me, the visibly pregnant and ready to pop pregnant woman. Here is a sample of the conversations I've had in only four short days so far.
I was walking out of one store when a woman stopped and asked how much longer I had.
Me: 2 weeks.
Lady: Wow, look at you! You are carrying straight out - you are all baby! You're ready to pop! Are you ready?
Me: Yes (smiles and leaves).
I approached the cash at another store. This time I was asked if I knew the sex of the baby.
Cashier: Wow, how do you do THAT? Don't you want to know?! How can you stand it?!
Me: I like the surprise. (smiles and leaves)
Another store, another cashier. This time I am asked if it's my first baby.
Me: My second.
Cashier 2: Are you more scared?
Me: Pardon me? (I wasn't sure if I heard her right and was a little thrown off by her question.)
Cashier 2: Are you more or less scared about having a baby this time?
Me: I've never been scared.
Cashier 2: Oh, haha that's good.
The more I think about it, this question really bothers me. What if I was a woman who wasn't confident about birth? Imagine how that question could have affected a woman who was already fearful about childbirth? Jeesh!
Then there was the dude who asked Hubby and I where we were delivering. I let Hubby do the talking and it was really funny witnessing the whole thing.
Hubby: Oh, we're having a home birth.
Dude: Oh really, wow! Do you have those people coming to your house to help? What are they called?
Hubby: Midwives? Yes, we have midwives. We've got the birthing tub all ready to go. (Way to go Hubby - add some fuel to the fire)
Dude: Birthing tub? You mean you will have the baby in a bath tub?
Hubby: Kinda, it's a big blow-up tub. We are a planning a water birth.
Dude: (completely dumbfounded) Wow...
Once it sunk in, Dude went on to tell us that his wife had two c-sections and so obviously this was all very knew to him. But he had a neighbour who went to the hospital and had her baby naturally within less than an hour - so "I guess it can be done!". He was really cute. As we walked away smiling, again, I mentioned to Hubby that I guess it's just so normal to us now that we don't realize how casually we bring up the topic of our planned home birth. We totally forget how foreign home birth sounds to some people.
And then, I finally met our neighbours. I was so excited and we ended up chatting for a while and we really clicked! And then I did it. I told her so casually without even thinking first that I was going to be giving birth next door any day now. I'm not sure her excited looks were out of sheer horror or not. I joked around with family and friends weeks ago that I had not met the neighbours and it would be quite the welcoming to the new hood if they heard me through the walls the day I give birth. Well, the neighbours to the left have been warned. I can't help it, I'm excited! We'll see how many clicky conversations we have now...oops!